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  WHY IS SEX A CHORE FOR MOST MARRIED WOMEN Hello, Welcome to my world. I hope you are well? Today let's talk about the hush hush topic, " why is sex a chore for most married women ?". Gender Socialization Firstly, I believe it is rooted in how some women are raised and socialized. Women are raised to not like sex with statements such as,  "Do not let a man touch you or else you will get pregnant" "Girls play with girls and boys play with boys". Then when it is time for women to get married, they are told  "Give your husband sex all the time" "Give your husband sex when he wants it" " If you don't give your husband sex, he will go out for it " "Don't ever withhold sex from your husband" With the above statements, women are raised to think sex is not meant for women and they are things that you do to pleasure your partner. I believe this is why women tend to see sex and lovemaking as a duty or a chore. Lac...

 FEELING LIKE A FAILURE IN YOUR 30s?| HOW TO OVERCOME IT Hello, Welcome to my world. Today let's talk about the feeling of failure, underachieved, worthless and hopeless when you are approaching the age of 30. Interestingly, when you hear people say they are approaching 30 and they have failed, it is usually because they are unmarried and have no children yet. My questions are, who determined that 30 is the goal or the age of achievement? Why are you putting pressure on yourself because of a mark someone else has set? My guess is, it is probably someone that sat down one day and said, if you are unmarried and you have no children, then you have failed. Then people just run with it. I feel like there is so much pressure on people to achieve so many things by the age of 30, when they have not been set up financially or adequately to succeed. The statement that, "breakfast is the most important meal of the day" is a slogan that a company came up with to s...

   Nothing is impossible with God Bible Devotion Daily Devotion: 31th October 2023 Introduction: Let me share my devotion today with you. As a believer where does your help come from? Who do you go to when you are in need? As humans, it is normal for us to go to other humans in times of need. We want to speak to someone who can also speak back to us, comfort us or assure us. Who do you go to when you are struggling or overwhelmed? Personally, I will pick up the phone and call my husband and after he listens to me, he will encourage me, ask me to pray or pray with me. I will rarely call friends and share my issues with them because I know they cannot help me. So who can help us? This bible passage came at the right time and it is very timely. Bible passage: Famine in Besieged Samaria 24  Some time later, Ben-Hadad king of Aram mobilized his entire army and marched up and laid siege to Samaria.   25  There was a great famine in the city; the siege l...

7 FAMILY ENTERTAINMENT AND FUN PLACES IN CALGARY Hello, Welcome to my world. Today I am going to share with you 7 family fun places to take your children if you are in Calgary or if you are planning to visit Calgary. Note:  You will be required to sign a waiver. You will need to wear grip socks. If you don't have one, you can buy it from them. When you play the games at these centres, you may win tickets. You can exchange the tickets for gifts. You will need to pay to uses these facilities. Most of these places  have more than one location in Calgary. They all have food hubs to buy something to eat. You can have parties for your children in this location. The Rec Room The Rec Room is located in the Deerfoot Mall in Calgary. They have a restaurant where you can eat and then an entertainment complex space. When we went there, we eat and then played the games in the entertainment complex. Pros They have a restaurant with some pretty good food  than the us...

 Where does your help come from?  Bible Devotion Daily Devotion: 30th October 2023 Introduction: Let me share my devotion today with you. As a believer where does your help come from? Who do you go to when you are in need? As humans, it is normal for us to go to other humans in times of need. We want to speak to someone who can also speak back to us, comfort us or assure us Who do you go to when you are struggling or overwhelmed? Personally, I will pick up the phone and call my husband and after he listens to me, he will encourage me, ask me to pray or pray with me. I will rarely call friends and share my issues with them because I know they cannot help. So who can help us? This bible passage came at the right time and it is very timely. Bible passage: 2nd Kings 24 - 27 Famine in Besieged Samaria 24  Some time later, Ben-Hadad king of Aram mobilized his entire army and marched up and laid siege to Samaria.   25  There was a great famine in the cit...

  UNPOPULAR OPINIONS ABOUT MARRIAGE Hello, I hope you are well? Welcome to my world. Today let's talk about  some unpopular opinions about marriage. In my opinion, marriage is not a scam. Marriage is a scam only if it is used to oppress, dominate and devalue another human being. Marriage is enjoyable and so if you are interested in getting married, please do not be discouraged by the negative news and stories. Take your time, study your partner and pray before you go into it. But as you get ready to marry or even for the married ones, let me share with you some unpopular opinions about marriage. Opposite Poles do not Attract I am sorry to disappoint you, but I do not think in marriage o pposite poles do not attract.  Opposite poles may attract in physics but not in  marriage. I will explain, I have heard many people said if you are a quiet person then you should marry a loud person because the two goes well. Based on that, people have gotten married and are stru...

9 THINGS TO DO WHEN YOU ARE OVERWHELMED OR STRESSED: CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVE Hello, Welcome to my world, I hope you are doing well? So we know as humans, we are not always happy. There are ups and downs in life, sometimes we are up and some times we are down. And sometimes we are truly overwhelmed! When I am overwhelmed, these are some things I do to calm down and keep sane.  Praising/Worshipping As a christian, I praise. I listen to gospel songs and just soak myself in his presence. I thank him for what he is about to do. Praising helps me calm down. Try it! Some current songs on my list include  darling Jesus , Yah , Kadosh , Aseda and etc. Psalm 42:5-6 5  5  5 Why, my soul, are you downcast?      Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God,      for I will yet praise him,      my Savior and my God. 6  My soul is downcast within me;      therefore I will remember...