5 reasons why you shouldn’t ask “When are you getting Married?”

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5 reasons why you shouldn’t ask “When are you getting Married?”


There are several reasons why you should not ask singles and people generally when they are going to get married. 

Today, I will share just 5 reasons why that is not a good question to ask.


1. They might not have found the right person or someone they are compatible with.


2. They might be nursing a broken heart and may be impacted by the question in that moment. Or they  might have just come out of a relationship that was leading to marriage and will not appreciate the question.


3. They might not be ready for marriage yet. 


4. They might not want to get married. Not everyone wants to get married.


5. It’s none of your business!


Before you ask someone a sensitive and personal question, please note that intent is not equal to impact. You may think you mean no harm with your question but your question may carry negative, emotional and psychological impact on the recipient.


It doesn't matter if you will be okay if someone asked you the question, "When are you getting married?". At this point in time, no one is asking you the question, it's not about you. You are are rather asking someone the question. This person is different from you and might not be okay with you asking them the question so don't ask or allude to it. 


If you are married and enjoying your home, please leave people alone and enjoy your home. If these people are your friends, they will let you know what’s going on in their lives without you asking them.

 

And until next time, know that

You are enough, you are worthy!

Learn to Live life in the present

And know that nothing last forever so everything will be fine!

Take care of YOU, YOU have all you got!

 

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