This and That with DrAnimwaa

Babies change everything! Babies/Children change EVERYTHING and truthfully can make things difficult. It calls for a period of readjusting to life together and all the things that can happen during the first couple years can truly test and make things hard to adjust to. A difficult pregnancy and delivery can reduce sex life to nothing. A difficult or hell, a good baby can lead to sleepless nights and in turn lead to crankiness, fatigue, shortened tempers. Then you throw in: The female hormones that for some never regulate until up to 3 years later. The sometimes lack of support system. The inability for both parties to get up and go or just spend simple alone time together. Bottom line is, MAJOR CHANGES that many of us are not mature enough to work through. Also, often times the relationship was struggling or had kinks from the beginning and the child may demolish an already weakened situation. So please be very sure before you have that baby! Because babies change everything! And un...

Before you have your baby, read this!     NB: Caveat - This post is PG16, Explicit   I had absolutely no idea of what I am about to share with you before I had a baby. And I am guessing there are people here who probably have no idea as well; and that is why I am sharing them. So here you go with things I wished I knew before I had a baby:   1.       Soreness in my Vagina.   I think that should have been obvious right? Well, a baby(big) was going to come out of my vagina (small) and so it will make sore. No, it was not that obvious to me. So, I walked into the labour delivery ward for checkup because my water broke, and I saw a young woman being wheeled out after having a baby and thought she came to have the baby in a wheelchair. Not knowing, I was going to be wheeled out the next day because I will be to sore to walk. After I had my baby. I tried to get up to use the washroom and I almost fell. The nurse rushed to hold me and told me t...

 5 Things to Teach Children when they are Young  1. Entrepreneur skills  This is important for two reasons: 1. If you are an entrepreneur yourself, then this is important.  You need to teach your children some entrepreneurial skills. This is because they might be learning from you and would like to be entrepreneurs one day.   Teach them entrepreneurial skills such as: How to start a business? How to maintain and grow a business? How to promote/market a business? How to get funding for a business? Book keeping? Investment and Savings The above are all great skills that your children will thank you for, even if they do not want to be entrepreneurs.  Not everyone, wants to be an entrepreneur and so it's okay if they don't follow in your foot steps. 2. If you are not an entrepreneur, your children might need it of their personal growth or for when they'd decide to venture into business.  2. Consent Consent is very important. You need to teach you...

6 Extracurricular Activities for Children  1. Swimming  2. Learn a Musical Instrument  3. Taekwando/Martial Arts 4. Coding 5. Art: Dance/Acting/Painting/Vocal coaching  6. Sports: Gymnastics/Hockey/Socccer/Basketball Relevance of Children's  Extracurricular Activities   a. "Me Time" for parents and guardians. b. Makes the children versatile c. Takes them away from the screen d. Broaden their knowledge e. Learn a new skill f. Networking - Bond and socialize with other people g. Makes them tired so they sleep early