This and That with DrAnimwaa

  WHY IS SEX A CHORE FOR MOST MARRIED WOMEN Hello, Welcome to my world. I hope you are well? Today let's talk about the hush hush topic, " why is sex a chore for most married women ?". Gender Socialization Firstly, I believe it is rooted in how some women are raised and socialized. Women are raised to not like sex with statements such as,  "Do not let a man touch you or else you will get pregnant" "Girls play with girls and boys play with boys". Then when it is time for women to get married, they are told  "Give your husband sex all the time" "Give your husband sex when he wants it" " If you don't give your husband sex, he will go out for it " "Don't ever withhold sex from your husband" With the above statements, women are raised to think sex is not meant for women and they are things that you do to pleasure your partner. I believe this is why women tend to see sex and lovemaking as a duty or a chore. Lac...

  UNPOPULAR OPINIONS ABOUT MARRIAGE Hello, I hope you are well? Welcome to my world. Today let's talk about  some unpopular opinions about marriage. In my opinion, marriage is not a scam. Marriage is a scam only if it is used to oppress, dominate and devalue another human being. Marriage is enjoyable and so if you are interested in getting married, please do not be discouraged by the negative news and stories. Take your time, study your partner and pray before you go into it. But as you get ready to marry or even for the married ones, let me share with you some unpopular opinions about marriage. Opposite Poles do not Attract I am sorry to disappoint you, but I do not think in marriage o pposite poles do not attract.  Opposite poles may attract in physics but not in  marriage. I will explain, I have heard many people said if you are a quiet person then you should marry a loud person because the two goes well. Based on that, people have gotten married and are stru...

  Physical Abuse is not the only Abuse: Types of Abuse   For many of us, when we hear the word, abuse, we think of physical abuse. There are several other abuses that occur which is detrimental to the victim.  Stop telling your friends and people to stay in abusive homes because their partner is not beating them. All abuse whether seen or unseen are damaging. Abuse can happen in intimate relationships, amongst acquaintances, at the workplaces, within families and almost any and everywhere.  Abuse is a means of control. An abuser controls the victim through their actions and inactions and take their power and agency from them.  A victim can experience more than one type of abuse. Some types of abuses are connected to each other. For example, verbal abuse can cause emotional abuse which can in turn cause mental abuse. Thus, a victim experiencing verbal abuse may also be experiencing emotional and mental abuse. Most victims make excuses for their abusive partner an...