This and That with DrAnimwaa

  UNPOPULAR OPINIONS ABOUT MARRIAGE Hello, I hope you are well? Welcome to my world. Today let's talk about  some unpopular opinions about marriage. In my opinion, marriage is not a scam. Marriage is a scam only if it is used to oppress, dominate and devalue another human being. Marriage is enjoyable and so if you are interested in getting married, please do not be discouraged by the negative news and stories. Take your time, study your partner and pray before you go into it. But as you get ready to marry or even for the married ones, let me share with you some unpopular opinions about marriage. Opposite Poles do not Attract I am sorry to disappoint you, but I do not think in marriage o pposite poles do not attract.  Opposite poles may attract in physics but not in  marriage. I will explain, I have heard many people said if you are a quiet person then you should marry a loud person because the two goes well. Based on that, people have gotten married and are stru...

UNPOPULAR TOPICS TO DISCUSS ON A FIRST DATE Hello, I hope you are well? I have a lot of unpopular opinions. If you are looking for the norm or what maintains the status quo then you are in the wrong place. Today, I will share with you my unpopular opinions about topics to discuss on the first date. Usually, people talk about superficial and basic things on a first date but I beg to differ that we need to have the deep conversation on the first date. This will determine if the person deserves another date or is worth your time. If you are dating with intent or you are looking for a serious relationship then it is important that you ask the deep and serious questions on the first date. So what are these deep questions or serious topic you should explore? Medicals/Health Talk about medicals/health. I know someone that says the first question they ask their date is, "I am AS, what is your genotype?". This person asks this question of the bat because they do not want to fall in l...

  Physical Abuse is not the only Abuse: Types of Abuse   For many of us, when we hear the word, abuse, we think of physical abuse. There are several other abuses that occur which is detrimental to the victim.  Stop telling your friends and people to stay in abusive homes because their partner is not beating them. All abuse whether seen or unseen are damaging. Abuse can happen in intimate relationships, amongst acquaintances, at the workplaces, within families and almost any and everywhere.  Abuse is a means of control. An abuser controls the victim through their actions and inactions and take their power and agency from them.  A victim can experience more than one type of abuse. Some types of abuses are connected to each other. For example, verbal abuse can cause emotional abuse which can in turn cause mental abuse. Thus, a victim experiencing verbal abuse may also be experiencing emotional and mental abuse. Most victims make excuses for their abusive partner an...