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 5 Interesting Nollywood Movies To Watch on Amazon Prime If you have amazon prime, then you have amazon video. If you are a Nollywood fanatic like me then you are probably looking for some good Nollywood movies to enjoy on prime.  It took me a while to find these gems on Prime and I want to share them with you so you can enjoy them too.  Here are five movies to watch on Prime Video 1. Gang of Lagos  2. Brotherhood 3. Sista  4. The trade  5. Still Falling  Binge watch over them over the weekend. or enjoy it during the weekdays over a chilled glass of sobolo or wine. And until next time, know that  You are enough, you are worthy! Learn to Live life in the present  And know that nothing last forever so everything will be fine!

Babies Change Everything!

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Babies change everything! Babies/Children change EVERYTHING and truthfully can make things difficult. It calls for a period of readjusting to life together and all the things that can happen during the first couple years can truly test and make things hard to adjust to. A difficult pregnancy and delivery can reduce sex life to nothing. A difficult or hell, a good baby can lead to sleepless nights and in turn lead to crankiness, fatigue, shortened tempers. Then you throw in: The female hormones that for some never regulate until up to 3 years later. The sometimes lack of support system. The inability for both parties to get up and go or just spend simple alone time together. Bottom line is, MAJOR CHANGES that many of us are not mature enough to work through. Also, often times the relationship was struggling or had kinks from the beginning and the child may demolish an already weakened situation. So please be very sure before you have that baby! Because babies change everything! And un...

Before you have your baby, Read this!

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Before you have your baby, read this!     NB: Caveat - This post is PG16, Explicit   I had absolutely no idea of what I am about to share with you before I had a baby. And I am guessing there are people here who probably have no idea as well; and that is why I am sharing them. So here you go with things I wished I knew before I had a baby:   1.       Soreness in my Vagina.   I think that should have been obvious right? Well, a baby(big) was going to come out of my vagina (small) and so it will make sore. No, it was not that obvious to me. So, I walked into the labour delivery ward for checkup because my water broke, and I saw a young woman being wheeled out after having a baby and thought she came to have the baby in a wheelchair. Not knowing, I was going to be wheeled out the next day because I will be to sore to walk. After I had my baby. I tried to get up to use the washroom and I almost fell. The nurse rushed to hold me and told me t...

5 Things to Teach Children when they are Young

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 5 Things to Teach Children when they are Young  1. Entrepreneur skills  This is important for two reasons: 1. If you are an entrepreneur yourself, then this is important.  You need to teach your children some entrepreneurial skills. This is because they might be learning from you and would like to be entrepreneurs one day.   Teach them entrepreneurial skills such as: How to start a business? How to maintain and grow a business? How to promote/market a business? How to get funding for a business? Book keeping? Investment and Savings The above are all great skills that your children will thank you for, even if they do not want to be entrepreneurs.  Not everyone, wants to be an entrepreneur and so it's okay if they don't follow in your foot steps. 2. If you are not an entrepreneur, your children might need it of their personal growth or for when they'd decide to venture into business.  2. Consent Consent is very important. You need to teach you...

6 Extracurricular Activities for Children

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6 Extracurricular Activities for Children  1. Swimming  2. Learn a Musical Instrument  3. Taekwando/Martial Arts 4. Coding 5. Art: Dance/Acting/Painting/Vocal coaching  6. Sports: Gymnastics/Hockey/Socccer/Basketball Relevance of Children's  Extracurricular Activities   a. "Me Time" for parents and guardians. b. Makes the children versatile c. Takes them away from the screen d. Broaden their knowledge e. Learn a new skill f. Networking - Bond and socialize with other people g. Makes them tired so they sleep early  

How to make your Airbnb Spaces Inclusive

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How to make your Airbnb Spaces Inclusive  As a DEI professional, I need to mention how we can make our Airbnb inclusive and welcoming to everyone.   Listing Just like how we advocate for job description to be inclusive, please make your listing description inclusive and use gender neutral terms when writing it. Communication Do not assume a guest's gender based on their names or appearances. Always ask a guest their pronouns and use the right pronouns in written and spoken communication with them.   Space Do not put any religious symbols or items in your home, example bible etc. Not everyone coming into your space share the same religion as you. Well-lit surroundings and pathways   Living room Put accessibility options on your TV Leave manuals or how to documents on how things need to be operated in your room. We should not assume that everyone knows how to use the coffee machine or the dishwasher.   Bedroom The main bedroom should be labelled as “primary bedroo...

Take Life Easy: 7 Easy Ways

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  Take Life Easy: 7 Easy Ways I am taking life more easy now a days and I am at so much peace! Well… what will I gain if I don’t take it easy  🤣😂 , none of us is getting out of life, alive. Right? So you might as well enjoy it and take it a day at a time. I stopped being entitled I stopped overthinking I save but enjoy if I have to 😉 I mind my business and drink water I do things I have always wanted to do- like creating content, starting a blog, starting a YouTube channel. I love hard- “ I’m gonna lose lose you “by Meghan Trainor is my go to song to love. My friends know I constantly show my appreciation to them and let them know I love them. I won’t wait till they are no more to give them their flowers. I don’t force things — not relationships and not even a ponytail. One time, I woke up and I couldn’t put my hair in a pony tail. I texted my husband and asked for the details of the barber. I went there and cut my hair. I cannot be bothered. Live life and choose you always...